Monday, August 10, 2026

The Gift of Time


When you spend years in a structured career, you become an expert at squeezing every ounce of productivity out of twenty-four hours. You schedule, you streamline, and you keep things moving forward.

But lately, I’ve been thinking about the difference between making time and receiving it. The greatest gift of this new chapter isn't just the flexibility; it’s the quiet permission to linger. In genealogy, you can’t rush the process. An old census record doesn't yield its secrets to someone in a hurry. It requires patience, presence, and unhurried focus.


Reclaiming my hours to spend them on what I love has shown me that the true value of time isn't measured by how much we accomplish, but by how deeply we connect to the moments we are given. This transition has given me the freedom to wander through history, and in doing so, I’ve found a much sweeter, slower rhythm of life. If you find yourself rushing through your days, I hope you can carve out even just a few minutes this week to simply pause and breathe. 

Honoring the Ancestors Who Never Reached 65

Today marks a milestone in my life—I turn 65.

Family
My family and I celebrated over the weekend by taking a sunset sail around Lake Ray Hubbard. It was the perfect evening filled with family, food, and funplus a nice breeze to help with this August heat! I even got to steer the boat, which made the whole night feel extra special!
Making memories aboard the Seawolf
 
The Gift of Growing Older
The older I get, the more I realize what a gift that is. As I've researched my family history, I've discovered that many members of my mother's family never had the opportunity to celebrate birthdays in their sixties. That knowledge has made me appreciate each passing year a little more.


Steering the Seawolf



Another Reason Today Feels Special
I was born on my paternal grandfather's birthday. Although we share the same birth date, I never had the chance to know him. He passed away 15 years before I was born—at only 50 years old. Yet through genealogy, I've come to know him in a different way—through records, photographs, and the stories left behind by those who remembered him.


Genealogy has a way of reminding us that while we can't change the past, we can honor it. Every document we uncover helps us understand the lives that made our own possible.

So today, as I celebrate another birthday, I'm also thinking of the generations who came before me—and feeling especially grateful to be part of their story.

Have you discovered a special connection to an ancestor through your own genealogy research? I would love to hear your story in the comments below!

Friday, August 7, 2026

Forgotten Faces Friday: Mystery Photo #2

The 1910s Chicago Studio Portrait
Every face in a vintage photograph has a name, a story, and a place in our history--even it has been forgotten. 
Welcome to Forgotten Faces Friday where we are dedicated to solving the mysteries hiding in our family archives. 
 The Historical Clues
  • The Location: The printed text on the back of the photo notes 831 South State St., Chicago, Ill. During the early 20th century, small budget friendly photography studios were set up in busy areas where working-class families, visitors, and commuters could get inexpensive "while-you-wait" photos.
  • The Photo Mailer: The top of the sleeve includes printed instructions: "Don't seal this envelope. Stick flap to pictures only." This confirms the couple had their portrait taken in the city and immediately used a specialized souvenir mailing sleeve to protect the prints while sending them to family members out of town.
  • The Style and Attire: The woman's long, tailored Edwardian "walking suit" and the couple's distinct styling narrow down the estimated creation timeline to the early 1910s (roughly 1910–1914).
The Faded Handwriting & Potential Family Links
The very faded handwriting offers few direct clues, but a closer look reveals a potential path forward:
  • The Address: Old paper tape covers up the name of the person this photo package was originally addressed to in Dallas.
  • The Letters: Looking closely beneath the tape, I believe I can make out a "Mr." or "Mrs." followed by part of a capital letter "A", and a capital "R" on the line below it.
  • The Holman Connection: My mother-in-law's parents were Arthur Holman and Rosetta Stephens Pulley Holman. Given the fragmented letters "A" and "R" matching Arthur and Rosetta, and the mailing destination of Dallas, it is highly possible this anonymous couple belongs to the extended Holman family branch.
  • Further writing: Looking at the writing in the bottom left (see photo below), it is possible it notes [Blue Eyes] and beneath it [Dark/Black Hair] just above the bottom paper tape.
Can You Help Solve the Mystery?
Look closely at the features of the young couple in the original portrait:
  • Do you recognize a striking family resemblance to the Holman family or any related branches?
  • Do you have records of family members living in or traveling through Chicago or Dallas in the early 1910s?
If you have a theory, recognize a face, or can decipher any of the surrounding faded blue script on the back, please leave a comment below!

Tuesday, August 4, 2026

Searching Isn't Researching: Laying the Foundation for the Genealogical Proof Standard

One of the greatest lessons I learned during my 21 years in the classroom has served me just as well in genealogy.

As a teacher, I never walked into a classroom wondering, What am I going to teach today? Every lesson began with a learning objective. I knew exactly what I wanted my students to understand before I chose the activities, worksheets, or assessments. The tools supported the lesson—they didn't determine it.

Genealogy works the same way.

Too often, we sit down at the computer, type an ancestor's name into a search box, and begin collecting whatever records appear. We save a census record, download a death certificate, maybe find a marriage record, and call it a productive day.

That's searching.

Searching is necessary—but searching alone rarely solves genealogical problems. Without a purpose, it's easy to collect records instead of finding answers.

That's where research comes in. The first part of research begins with a question.

Instead of asking, What can I find on Benjamin Ball? try asking:

  • Who were Benjamin Ball's parents?
  • Where was he living during the 1850 and 1860 censuses?
  • Why did he disappear from one county and appear in another?
  • Did he serve in the Civil War, or was there another man with the same name?

Once you know what you're trying to learn, you can develop a research plan and identify the records most likely to answer your question. A census may establish residence. A deed might reveal family relationships. Probate records, tax lists, church registers, newspapers, military records, or the records of friends, associates, and neighbors (the FAN Club) may each provide another piece of the puzzle.

Now your searching has purpose.

This distinction isn't just my opinion—it's reflected in the evolution of genealogical standards themselves.

When the Board for Certification of Genealogists first published Genealogy Standards in 2000, the first element of the Genealogical Proof Standard called for a reasonably exhaustive search. In the 2014 edition, that wording changed to reasonably exhaustive research.

That may seem like a small change, but it reflects a significant shift in thinking.

Searching is the act of locating records.

Research begins with a question, follows a plan, and searches for records with purpose.

That single word change reflects a shift in mindset. Modern genealogy isn't measured by how many records we collect, but by how thoughtfully we answer a research question.

Looking back, I realize this was one of the most important lessons I learned while studying the Genealogical Proof Standard. At first, I thought the challenge was learning the five standards. Instead, the real challenge was changing the way I approached genealogy.

Once I stopped asking, What records can I find? and started asking, What question am I trying to answer?, everything else began to fall into place.

That simple shift in mindset is the foundation of the Genealogical Proof Standard (GPS)—and the focus of this series.

Over the next several articles, we'll build on this foundation by exploring each element of the Genealogical Proof Standard and how they work together to produce reliable genealogical conclusions.

  • Reasonably Exhaustive Research
  • Complete and Accurate Source Citations
  • Analysis and Correlation of Evidence
  • Resolving Conflicting Evidence
  • Writing a Soundly Reasoned, Coherently Written Conclusion

Join me in this journey, and you will see that the Genealogical Proof Standard is not five separate requirements, but one connected process for answering family history questions with confidence.

Friday, July 31, 2026

Forgotten Faces Friday: Mystery Photo #1

The 1940s Car Bumper Portrait
Every face in a vintage photograph has a name, a story, and a place in our history--even it has been forgotten. 
Welcome to Forgotten Faces Friday, a new weekly photo identification series dedicated to solving the genealogy mysteries hiding in our family archives. Today, I am sharing a vintage family photograph that looks incredibly familiar, yet remains completely anonymous as we work to identify these ancestors.
Vintage 1940s family photo posing on a 1939 Ford DeLuxe car bumper, unknown ancestors genealogy mystery.
Family sitting on the grill of a 1939/1940 Ford DeLuxe   
With no names, locations, or dates written on the back of this photograph, we have to rely entirely on the visual clues left behind to piece together its history. Here is what the photo itself tells us about when this moment took place:

The Historical Clues

  • The Vehicle: Based on its pointed vertical grille and teardrop headlights, the car appears to be a 1939 or 1940 Ford DeLuxe. While not conclusive, this identification may help narrow the date of the photograph.
  • The Clothing: 
    • The woman is wearing a structured skirt suit possibly with padded shoulders, a classic WWII-era "Victory Suit."
    • The man's conservative suit and tie were typical fashions of the period.
    • The boy's overalls, and the girl's simple dress and shoes also fit the era. 
  • The Hair: The woman has her hair styled in a rolled updo, a popular 1940s "victory roll" variation.
  • The Estimated Era: Early-to-mid 1940s (roughly 1940–1946).

Can You Help Solve the Mystery?

Look closely at the features of the couple and the two young children:
  • Do you recognize a striking family resemblance to your branch of the family?
  • Do you remember hearing stories about an ancestor who owned a late model 30s or 40s Ford?
If you have a theory or recognize a face, please leave a comment below!

Monday, July 27, 2026

Amanuensis Monday: Letter from Daisy Ford Green 1993

This weekly blog post was inspired by Amanuensis Monday, created by John Newmark of the Transylvanian Dutch blog. The word amanuensis means "A person employed to write what another dictates or to copy what has been written by another."  
Why transcribe? Genealogists transcribe letters, postcards, and documents to focus on slowing down and noticing those hidden details, to create a readable backup for fragile records, and to share the evidence with others.                                                                                 --------------------------------

This is a 2-page letter from my Aunt Daisy (Auntie) to me dated January 29, 1993. She is giving me information on where my great-grandmother is reported to be buried. 

Physical Description
Document Type: Handwritten personal letter (2 pages)
Condition:
  • Two handwritten pages written in dark ink.
  • Paper is aged with overall yellowing and discoloration consistent with age.
  • Numerous creases and fold marks are present.
  • Small stain on page 1 about mid-way of the page. Minor staining throughout.
  • Page 1 has a folded lower-left corner resulting in obscuring a word.
  • Page 2 has a folded lower-right corner resulting in some loss of paper.
  • Several words are difficult to read because of handwriting rather than damage.
  • Some letters or words have been marked through and illegible and have been marked with [crossed out: illegible].
  • Original spelling, capitalization, punctuation, grammar, and line breaks have been preserved.
The transcription:
                1-29-93
     Dear Renita I talked to Lola
and to your daddy today about
were Grand Paws Mother was
buried Clay sad it was in the

one going toward Grinville I thonk it was called the lantom Cemetry I not sure but Lola sad she was out at the some one that Grand Mother Ford and Claton and aunt Lela. just so you well no were I am talking about Lola sad she was eather put on aunt Addie’s and [crossed out: illegible] Uncle Will. Allgood’s lot that is Grand Paws sister Addie that was her first husbon. or on Uncle John Wickliffe lot whoe was Grandpaw’s Brother Clay sad him and Moma went to this other Cemetary while they lived at Quinlon but he sad the graves was hard to find that they were not marked good so I still don’t no for sure [I] belive Aunt Jonnie is buried in that

[Page 2] one Clay was talking about you no she [crossed out: illegible] was Grand Maws sister and her first husbon name was Arnold Joe Arnold you rember [crossed out: illegible] Verda [crossed out: illegible] Nixon that big moma used to talk to that lived in Dallas, well Joe and Jonnie was her Mother ond dad and she has a brother Jessie that lives in Quinlon if he is still living [crossed out: illegible] he lives on out that road were the Cemetry is werer Aunt Lela s’ buried you mite see if he has a phone. and see if he could till you were the Cemetry is that is on between Quinlon ond Grenville I don't no if any of this will help you are not hope it will.   just thought I would rite it down     love you Aunte.

The source citation for this letter is as follows:
Daisy Ruth (Ford) Green (Corpus Christi, Texas) to "Dear Renita" [Renita Ford Collier], letter, 29 January 1993; privately held by Renita Ford Collier, [ADDRESS FOR PRIVATE USE,] Terrell, Texas, 1993.




The Gift of Time

When you spend years in a structured career , you become an expert at squeezing every ounce of productivity out of twenty-four hours. You sc...